New York And New Jersey Mediation Divorce Lawyers
Ending a marriage is hard enough without a courtroom battle draining your savings. Mediation offers a quieter, less costly path. At DiLorenzo & Rush founded in 1997, our attorneys bring more than 70 years of combined experience to every case.
Divorce Mediation Versus Litigation In New Jersey And New York
Litigation hands your divorce to a judge, and court calendars can stretch a case past a year while fees climb. Mediation lets spouses negotiate their own terms, usually in less time, at lower cost and with less stress.
A nonadversarial divorce works well when spouses can share information honestly. It is not recommended where there has been domestic violence, a serious power imbalance or hidden assets.
As mediators, our New York and New Jersey mediation divorce attorneys provide a neutral framework without representing either side. They make sure both spouses understand the legal risks of bypassing court. Mediation is one path through the larger divorce process.
Dividing Assets And Debt In New York And New Jersey Divorce Mediation
Both states divide marital property through equitable distribution, and mediation lets you negotiate that split within New York and New Jersey divorce mediation law. The trickiest assets include:
- Home: You may agree on a buyout or a sale.
- Pensions: Spouses typically divide only the share earned during marriage.
- 401(k)s: A qualified domestic relations order (QDRO) divides the account without early-withdrawal penalties.
- Businesses: A neutral valuation gives both spouses the same numbers.
- Debt: Credit cards, car loans and other balances get split too.
Scheduled sessions help keep retainer costs predictable. Our attorneys then draft a binding property settlement agreement (PSA) designed to reduce costly post-divorce court revisions. See how marital property gets divided.
Online And Virtual Divorce Mediation Services In New Jersey And New York
Online mediation lets busy spouses meet by secure video from anywhere, a faster, more private and less stressful option. Our attorneys mediate across county and state lines, as when one spouse lives in New York City and the other in North Jersey.
An agreement reached online is as legally valid as one reached in person. Secure e-signatures and court-approved electronic filing keep the process moving.
Get Answers About Mediating Your Divorce In New York Or New Jersey
Choices about your home and retirement shape your finances for years. Call 718-537-9885 to schedule a consultation with a lawyer online, in our Hackensack office or by appointment in the Bronx.

